One of the greatest external problems that results from breast cancer has to do with our clothing and how it fits. Everyone has this problem whether it results from breast size changes from surgery and/or changes that happen to our bodies from chemotherapy, radiation and/or hormone therapy. And most likely, this is the last additional expense that is needed for most people at this time when money may be at a premium and needed for necessities and treatments and medications. So what is one to do?“Every person who has ever dealt with breast cancer has experienced body changes on some level so just know that you are not alone in your need to find answers for one more areas of your life that has been forever changed.”
Barbara Jacoby
Probably some preparations were made in advance if you were having surgery. Clothing that could be easily slipped on and off without having to raise the arms is always a first choice. Loose fitting items are also likely selections. These pieces will become staples during healing and while additional treatment like chemo and radiation are pursued. And special attention must be given if a port is inserted as it adds to the equation.
Most will face some sort of weight loss or weight gain depending on various treatments selected by your medical team and now the real work and creativity begin. If you find that your changes are not extreme enough to require major size changes, you may be able to utilize some of the basic pieces that you already own. A belt here or a scarf there can shape a look that may not physically exist. A loose-fitting sweater over a top that has become a little snug may be a perfect solution for extra warmth. But, you may say, I don’t feel like dealing with this and that would be completely understandable. This is the time when a sister or close friend can become your best ally and I am sure that she would love to be able to help you in this way.
Asking for the help of someone can also be expanded to help in the clothing arena. Perhaps your friend has things from her wardrobe that she can share with you or others in your circle of friends can help in this way, especially if you need larger or smaller sizes. Having someone to just do the grunt work of going through what you have and creating outfits for you can be of a major help. And if you don’t have anyone close to you to help in this way, check local support organizations and enlist their help. There are always those that want to help if just given the opportunity.
If you need new clothes but funds are limited, thrift stores are always a great place to check out for whatever your clothing needs may be. This includes undergarments as well as outwear of all sorts. Everything is freshly washed and/or cleaned before being place on sale, which is of course, always a major concern. Most towns have a Goodwill or Salvation Army store and now more organizations such as the American Cancer Society are opening outlets that are similar.
If you are not in the mood to go out to shop for clothes at this time or you may be very self-conscious about your new physical appearance. This may just be the perfect time to shop online if this is something that you have not done before. The ability to try things on at your leisure and in the privacy of your own home is a luxury that would not have been available in the not-too-distant past. However, for many, it may be exactly what is needed in order to find what you need so that you are comfortable to go out in public for the first time after recovery.
Help is available for whatever you may need. Every person who has ever dealt with breast cancer has experienced body changes on some level so just know that you are not alone in your need to find answers for one more areas of your life that has been forever changed. The answers are out there. All you need to do is ask the questions and/or ask for the help that you need.
Barbara Jacoby is an award winning blogger that has contributed her writings to multiple online publications that have touched readers worldwide.