Help! Someone I Love Has Cancer

In In The News by Barbara Jacoby

By: Joel Hughes

How You Can Really Make a Difference in Helping a Loved-One with Cancer

“Within two months, my dad and new young wife were both diagnosed with stage four cancer.  My wife was only given 4-6 months to live. I didn’t even know what cancer was, except that it was really bad.  I didn’t know what to do or say. The world fell out from below me and the future went black.”

When someone you love gets diagnosed with cancer, what do you say?  What do you do?  What do you NOT do?  These questions and many others are answered in a new book: HELP! Someone I Love Has Cancer: How You Can Really Make a Difference.  The answers come from a young couple who are in the trenches and valleys of fighting cancer and learning to love through it.

In 2014, Joel and Rebekah were married.  Seven months later, Joel’s dad was diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer.  Two months later, at the age of 26, Rebekah was diagnosed with stage four breast cancer.  One chapter of life closed and a new chapter opened. Their cancer journey began.

They are now three years into the journey.  Along the way, many people have come alongside to help: family, friends, strangers, and some out of the woodworks.  Many are helpful. Joel calls them “Cancer Angels”. But others try to help but end up doing just the opposite. Joel calls these folk “Well-Intentioned Dragons”.  The book is clothed with many stories of encounters with these “dragons”. This book will help you become a Cancer Angel and, hopefully, not be one of the dragons.

“Most of the dragons think they are helping and have no idea that they are actually causing harm.  I wrote this book to inspire people with our story, to help people learn what cancer is, and show people how to really help a friend or loved one walking the cancer journey.”

The book will be available on Amazon on 7-10-18.  He is also giving it away FREE for a limited time here:  

Joel Hughes is a husband and father.  He is also the author of In Your Corner (coming soon), co-producer of the movie A Brave Hope (coming soon), and director of Rebekah’s Hope.  He holds degrees in Christian ministry and philosophy.  Joel lives in Southern California with Rebekah and his two kids.