Lisa’s Tribute to Her Mother
August 29, 2010 by Barbara Jacoby
Filed under Breast Cancer, Creating Happiness, Recent Posts
I first met Lisa Koch-Howell here a few months ago shortly after her mother lost her life to breast cancer. At that time she wrote to me the following:
“Well I was wondering if you could give me some advice. My sister did the 3 day breast cancer walk 2 years ago. She really enjoyed it. Our mama met her at the finish line. This last year in June, Mama was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer. I went down to Oregon the next day & stayed & took care of her & daddy. Mama then past away on 9/26/09. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. I held her in my arms as she took her last breath.
My sister, who by the way is my best friend, wants me to go to Seattle & do the walk with her. The walk has always been the 1st of Sept. but this year it is on mama’s 1 year anniversary of losing her life on 9/26/10. Can we do this? I don’t know. The other thing is how do I raise enough money to do it? I live in a little community of 75 in the bush here in Alaska. I am just feeling this out as I am also very out of shape. Could you please give me some suggestions?”
Lisa and I wrote back and forth for awhile and the next thing I knew, she had sent a notice out to all of her Facebook friends to let us know that she had set up a website for donations to the Susan G. Komen Foundation so that she could do this walk. And despite the challenges that she faced in order to raise that amount of money, she has successfully been able to do so.
I have been in touch with her recently and know that among other things that have happened to her since she undertook this challenge, a recent foot injury has caused a major setback to her training. However, she is not letting that interfere. In her last post to me she said:
“I talked to my sister & she encouraged me & told me it would be fine. I can walk a while then catch a ride, then walk. So I will be there with my swollen foot, limping across that finish line. With the support of all of you who have prayed & supported me financially, I will make it.”
This is the face of one very courageous lady who is truly an inspiration to anyone who knows her and knows her story. She is a true representative of each of those who walks for the cure. She is one who puts a real face on what this deadly disease can do and does do on a daily basis. She, to me, is a real hero. I also want to thank another hero in this story, her sister, for all that she has done and is doing personally and in support of Lisa. I, too, have a wonderfully supportive sister and know what a difference that means to me.
And although I will not be there physically when these two women cross that finish line on September 26th, the one-year anniversary of their mother’s passing from breast cancer, you can be sure that I, along with all of their supporters, will be there in spirit to celebrate their accomplishments. Thank you both for everything that you are and everything that you have done. You have shown everyone exactly how one person can make a difference and we are all the more fortunate for knowing you and knowing about the tribute that both of you are making to your mother.
I always love your COMMENTS.











Hi there,
You girls are absolutley terrific. Your Mom has always been so proud of her family. We could spend hours talking about our kids it didn’t matter that we knew each others kids as wll as our own or that the stories didn’t change that much. Your Mom felt truly blessed wiht her 3 kids. I am so blessed to be Aunti Bubb.
I feel your Mom will be your guardian angel during the walk. ALL OF YOUR EXTENDED FAMILIES LIKE ME, WILL BE THINKING OF YOU CHEERING YOU ON AND SO VERY VERY PROUD OF YOU BOTH.
Love you
Aunti Bubb
Thank you so much for adding your special comments here. There is nothing more important than family and the support that they provide.
Dear Barbara,
What a wonderful article you wrote about my sister, mother and me. This has truly been the hardest thing our families have ever gone thru. I miss my mom everyday, and as the walk gets closer it is diffently not getting easier. I know this is going to be tough for both of us, but I also know this is going to give us some peace as well, we will be taking all our loved ones with us in our hearts to give us strength those 3days. We will take lots of pictures and document our 3days and share with you. Thank you for all your support.
Tammi Koch-Palodichuk
I can’t tell you how much I respect and appreciate what you both are doing. I have been so fortunate that my cancer did not take my life and I know that I can’t begin to imagine what the past year has been like for both of you. Although my mother has also passed away, she did so without a disease like cancer hitting her. For your mother to have gone so quickly I am sure is very, very hard. The most amazing thing is that you are doing this walk, (for you, once again), to help others even though the research was not successful in time to save your mother. I promise you that she is looking down on both of you with such pride and gratitude for what you are doing and for the wonderful women that you are. What a shining example you set for all of us. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for everything.
Although I have not seen Lisa in many years, I have re-aquanted with her on facebook to learn of her moms passing. My heart truely goes out to her. I cannot be there is person to watch her cross that finish line, but know Lisa, our hearts are with you on this special day.
Thank you so much for your kind words to Lisa and for sharing with all of us your support for her efforts. So glad to have you on board to join the team with me who will be with her in spirit on that special day! I am glad that you two have been able to reunite on Facebook after many years. This is one of the best aspects of this social networking.